From the ever-shining paragon of good sense and humanity, anti_feminism:
The sex doesn't have to be violent. It doesn't have to be at gunpoint. It doesn't have to be screaming or kicking to get away. It just has to be unwanted for it to suddenly be rape.
Get real, ladies: a little bit of unwanted sex never hurt anyone. If a fat girl forced herself on me during my state of morning wood and got herself off, I'd feel pretty gross, but I wouldn't fucking accuse her of rape and proceed to cry for months on end. Having sex (even bad sex) is about as bad as getting a noogie. Noogies are generally unwanted. Are noogies rape as well?