kageneko makes a mod post in weddingplans threatening to ban ANYONE who uses a HP spoiler icon no matter how fake it appears. She even goes so far as to lock down membership to prevent it from happening.
I'd have to say the best quote out of the whole thing is "You are definitely welcome here, it's generally just not a good idea to question the mods when they're in mod-mode." as a result of briteflame3 asking "What does this have to do with wedding plans"? and the mod responding with "Don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out".
-edit- Sorry guys, despite not caring if it gets posted here, kageneko screened all the comments in the original post.